Consensual Enslavement

128 Slave Rules Preface

Apprentice

This is going to be a bit of history for some and new for others. It involves one of the more infamous writings in BDSM and consensual slavery called the 128 Rules for Slaves. The original author, Jonathan Kay, is currently active on FetLife as Master_Flog. He has very kindly given his explicit permission to quote the preface or parts of it here.

I was in a discussion where some new people to M/s mentioned using it to create their rules. They were jumped on rather heavily as almost always happens when someone mentions the 128 Rules. They have been thoroughly vilified over the years. The list even made the news years ago as an exhibit in a court case trying a Dom/Master for physically abusing and assaulting his sub/slave. It was used to show what a bad and crazy person he was. It made great 'look at the freak' news items. I knew that the original author had the rules online but I had never looked up the site until recently. When you read what is there and the preface to the rules, they take on a totally different usage. The preface that Kay includes on his page is something I had never seen before. Previously, it has always been just the rules.

I am not going to quote the 128 Rules here but I will include the current source location for preface and rules:

128 Slave Rules:

http://kink-notes.blogspot.com/2018/01/128-rules-for-female-slave-official.html?zx=4f2c0e54b0e918f8

I consider the 128 Rules for Slaves a tool. I am also including the preface as a tool as well. Use it as a way to think about things you discover and about techniques for increasing or reinforcing the enslavement of your current or potential future slave. It is also a good tool for early in the process to gain information from the slave. This is a two-part tool which is in the information in the preface, not the rules themselves, which can be used as tools or parts of tools as well. I have omitted parts of the writing to concentrate just on the parts which are tools we can use. I might eventually do something on the rules themselves but this is sufficient for now.

I think much more highly of the whole thing now than I originally did and will be using it for more than just a menu of ideas I wished to incorporate in how I want a slave to behave or in what I want her to do or not do.

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128 Rules for the female slave

by Johnathan Kay

Please note the following:

"128 Rules for the female slave" and former "128 Basic slave Rules" are under copyright 1992 by Johnathan Kay. Email me at 128rules@gmail.com for permission to use any of it for any reason. This site is the official blog for the rules:http://kink-notes.blogspot.com/2018/01/128-rules-for-female-slave-official.html?zx=4f2c0e54b0e918f8 (use this credit after receiving my permission for use in your application)

Use at your own risk. I take no responsibility for what happens to you when you use the rules. Email me if you have any questions. Remember: First aid works for kinky injuries. So, does common sense. Don't be an idiot. Take precautions. You can do this.

Rules change when I feel like changing them. I'm the Master here...remember that. This blog is the official version....no numbers, no letters....just this blog. You're reading the current version unless I'm updating it while you're reading them.

Context:

"128 Rules for the female slave" are written for heterosexual M/s (Male Master/female slave) relationships. While it can be converted for other orientations - the focus here will be strictly for Male Dominants/Masters and female submissives/slaves. Those who convert it to fit other orientations must give credit to the blog here as stated above.

Purpose of the Rules

For anyone who wants to find out more about what might be included in a heterosexual Master/slave relationship.

• To know, as I found out, how fulfilling this lifestyle can be.
• To feel this 'at home' feeling.
• To feel an intimate sexual ingredient in every part of your life.
• To know there is a source from which all this comes and allows for living like this to be so special, wanted, and most of all needed and necessary.
• To feel alive.
• To know that everything about your life and your past finally makes sense.
• To feel sensual, sexual, enlightened, and empowered, cared for and desired in a manner you have not found in a vanilla lifestyle.
• To know how it is to be made free through it all.
• To seek guidance and realize favor and acceptance with reason.
• To know what gets you wet and hot and bothered.
• To find, finally, who you are and where you fit.

Notes for the female slave to Keep in Mind

1. Go slow, have lots of discussions, know that a M/s relationship goes fast, be honest, open, communicate all issues, learn, be okay with mistakes made, listen, and be protective of your well being, psychological, physical, sexual, social and emotional health.
2. Use your safe words if you have them.
3. Ask lots of questions.
4. Read whatever you can find on the M/s lifestyle, toys used, safety, sexual safety, positions, other people's rules, first aid, techniques, etiquette, practices, culture, traditions, aftercare - this is very important to bring you back from intense play, spiritualism, etc.
5. Expect to be tested on what you are taught.
6. Understand punishment as something you would rather not get often. Know that discipline helps to remind you of how to behave.
7. Each rule has many meanings. Find what speaks to you most to understand and apply the rule. Work with each rule often coming back to re-evaluate them.
8. Trust is everything. Know your Master. Understand how problems can be resolved. Know to walk away if necessary till you find the right Master for you.
9. Consider a trial period.
10. Have a kind of third person thing going on with you and allow it to watch over you and help you get through what you are put to use for and to evaluate how use of you fits. Be able to talk about issues and work to resolve them.
11. Ask for release from a Master rather than storming out.
12. Get tested for sexual safety. Be honest with your Master. Insist your Master gets tested.
13. Don't be afraid to use condoms, dental dams, latex or nitrile gloves to be sexually safe.
14. Tell your doctor exactly how you got the marks on your body so that you get the right kind of medical help.
15. Adjust and fit the rules for your relationship and needs. Eliminate those you don't want to use.
16. Avoid drugs and alcohol when in a M/s relationship. You don't need any more problems. This lifestyle can be dangerous and you will want to act safely and be safely led and used.
17. Keep a journal - one for you, one for your Master.
18. Expect assignments. Do your best.
19. Your primary focus is to serve, obey and hope to be found pleasing in all you provide and do.
20. Be of good health to be flexible as much as you can be for use.

How to Use the Rules

1. Kneel in an attentive position in a safe place nude as if on assignment along with some paper and a pen.
2. Read through all the rules in a whisper and feel in your heart how they sound to you. It may take you from hours to days to read through all the rules.
3. Using the following to rate the rules by number or your chosen color code:

3.1. Will do.
3.2. Want to do, but will need a little push.
3.3. Won't do ever. In fact, if so required, will ask for release.
3.4. Find questionable and may be in need of a rewrite or elimination.
3.5. Must do without question - an absolute need.

4. When finished with the rating - leave the rules alone for a bit and come back and do it again. Some decisions might change after the first time.
5. You do not have to memorize all the rules you want to use.
6. The rules are for building a mindset.
7. Take the time to read your final selections often to help keep you in your place.
8. Discuss your selections with your Master or with those you wish to consider to be taken by as your Master. Follow what is finally chosen and approved by your Master.

27 September 2018