Consensual Enslavement
Enforcers
Enforcers are things or actions that create enslavement. The size or importance of the item or action do not determine how effective an Enforcer is and not all Enforcers affect every person equally.
Reinforcers:
A Reinforcer is an item, action or meme that extends the Dwell Time of enslavement.
De-enforcers:
A De-enforcer is an item, action or meme that reduces the Dwell Time of enslavement.
Enforcers and reinforcers come in many forms such as items, actions or memes. They are not always obvious when they are used. The use of the title Master, or Sir are action reinforcers. The titles themselves are meme reinforcers. Any single usage of them doesn't do much at all. It is very seldom anything noticeable except for certain times in a consensual slavery relationship. The more meaningful the title or action in using the title the stronger it is as a reinforcer. That does not mean that if it is not meaningful it has no effect. The effect is cumulative.
The meme connotation of a title is the most important thing in its effect as a reinforcer. They operate on both a psychological and basis. The longer any meme-based enforcer is used with a positive connotation, the more neurological rewiring seems to take place to respond to that meme with an included dopamine release. This is the biological reinforcement that loops back to increase the importance of the meme psychologically and biologically which loops back to the response to the meme which loops back....I think you get the idea. This cycle increases the Dwell Time of the enforcement and by extension, the enslavement.
This is what my research into enslavement has shown is the way the subtle forms of enforcers work. The gross forms, such as physical punishment for disobedience or doing something wrong are also enforcers and yes, they can, if done correctly, produce a meme reinforcer effect and they also work at the psychological level of pain avoidance. That is, however, a different topic.
This is only one example of enforcers that do work. Old Guard, Leather and other groups have been using this without knowing how it works for years and long before Norman wrote the Gor books. In fact, groups and religions have been using this process in one form or another for thousands of years. You only need to start looking to start seeing it. It can, and does, provide for one avenue of building a positive feeling about someone as well as trust and eventually obedience to them. A non-slavery example that most here will recognize is a Catholic Priest being called Father. Think about that in relation to what I have written about and the understanding that most people have had a positive reaction to the term 'father' because of their feelings most people have about their father.
An enforcer can be just about anything that already has a meaning you want to make sure the slave understands and identifies with. A reinforcer can be the same thing. It is just used after the original enforcer is set.
Despite what some people think, the term Master, as applied to you, is a great enforcer and reinforcer. If every time she thinks of you the concept or meme of Master is attached, her understanding of the title's meaning will be attached as well. A single use of it doesn't do much. 20 times or more a day adds up to a lot of meaning and reinforcement of your identity to her. The word slave when you use it referring to her or she uses it referring to herself works the same way. It reinforces her self-identity as a slave.
The question is, what words or term are meaningful to first, both of you and second, to her and third, to you? Yes, you come last. Those memes are for your reinforcement of your status with her to you. The others cover both of you but mostly to her. Make a list under all three categories and put a term in all that apply. Start with the threes and then twos in the order you work on them. Eventually you will figure out which things work best with which others and link them. A compound meme is more powerful than a simple meme but harder to fix in place.
One of the reasons I am not giving you too many is that memes are to an extent language and culturally dependent. I don't know yours so I have a much harder time translating some of the subtler ones that I use.
There are also physical ones that are generally universal but not absolutely universal. When she is physically with you or in communication with you, and you reasonably and safely can, the simple physical meme of keeping her head lower than yours, as in kneeling or sitting on the floor and you standing or sitting in a chair, works well. The same with clothing. If you are clothed and she is not, that can be very powerful. So is her using certain clothing or positions only when she is in "slave" mode. Unless she is a full-time slave to you, and even then, she will mentally move in and out of "slave mode" depending on what she is doing.